Meet the Parents - Self Disclosure - 1474 Words

Narrative to Self-Disclosure Meet the Parents- Film Analysis In the film, Meet the Parents, there are numerous instances where lying occurs. Lying is presented in various ways, including benevolent lies, self-serving lies, and lies used to benefit oneself. Throughout the film, some lies are easily identifiable as to the reason why the lie was used while others require more of an in-depth analysis to determine the motive behind the lie. The way in which the lie is conveyed is also an important element worthy of review when examining each type of lie. At the beginning of the film, Greg uses a benevolent lie when referencing his life on a farm when he actually grew up in Detroit. In the previous scene, Jack discovers Greg reading a magazine†¦show more content†¦According to Adler, those who do not demonstrate powerless speech mannerisms are â€Å"rated as more competent, dynamic and attractive.† Being able to speak with power also assists you in getting what you want because it illuminates the use of powerless language, such as hesitations in which Greg uses at various points throughout the film. In connecting to the ethics of evasion, there was a great deal of instances where Greg chose to lie to avoid embarrassment. During one point, however, I do feel that Greg was able to demonstrate communication competence. When Jack and Greg were at the airport discussing the events of the past few days, Greg was able to be honest and open with Jack regarding the many issues they had encountered. Greg was honest and open when stating the expectations he had for Jack and when requesting Jack accepts him the way he is. It may not always be easy to be direct and effective in communication, but as Adler states, the ability to choose the most appropriate behavior can improve the likeliness of being competent. (pg.27) It appears that Greg had time to self-monitor his behavior and assess what strategies in communication did not work, and adjust accordingly. After finding a more desirable approach for communication and being committed to the other person involved in the conversation, it is much easier to reach that level of skill in communication. While at Pam’s ex-boyfriendsShow MoreRelatedSocial Penetration Theory : Crazy, Love1117 Words   |  5 Pagesto an intimate and in-depth relationship. Through the process of self-disclosure and the depth and breadth of penetration, social penetration is achieved. Social psychologists Irwin Altman and Dalmas Taylor founded the social penetration theory (SPT), which explains the advancement of relational closeness. 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